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Monday, December 10, 2018

You are not a car to be tested

A very disappointing and disgusting habit that is common in some men is the need or desire to 'test' the girls they are in a relationship with in order to see if they are 'wife material'.
And it is even sadder to see that some mothers and sisters help out their sons and brothers in testing other women.
Some of these practices are stupid and bizarre and it is disrespectful and dehumanizing. I will advise ladies to run as fast as they can when they come across such families. You do not deserve such humiliation.
Some common types of testing include verbal abuse, severe housework, unnecessary suffering (to see if you can endure), lies about disabilities, and poverty.
It is disrespectful to treat someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with as if she has questionable character.
And the most important question remains, ‘who is testing him to see if he is a husband material?' do you think the family members that support him will take your side in an argument? Of course not!
You are a human being capable of being loved for who you are. You do not deserve to be tested in any humiliating way and you have to

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